I’m married we’ve been married for 8 months, but together for 4 years. In the first four months we were together, I was besotted by her, love at first sight, as she was a single mum, not career orientated it was going to be a good relationship. About four months in, her flatmate died, he was a Sri Lankan migrant (call him M). It came as a shock and hit her hard, about a week later M’s best friend started showing up let’s call him D, a shoulder, even though I was trying my best for her and said I’m there for her whenever she needed me, it wasn’t enough, we lived on other sides of the city, and I had a demanding job, D was unemployed.
D became a friend she could talk to about M, and I was slowly being pushed to the side.
She didn’t find him attractive so she said, so I thought nothing of it. And out of the blue I get a video message and a text, saying she was too emotional to be in a relationship.
Fast forward – 3 months, I’m on holiday seeing friends and family, she asks if we can catch up when I get back. I do, and we go for a walk, she tells me that she had unprotected sex with D in M’s bed. But it’s all over after it, and it was a one off, but they stayed in the same bed. Basically he just wanted to have sex with a blonde, and she wanted to have sex with a Sri Lankan.
She said it was just sex and she just wanted comfort.
We got back together. But can’t help feel like a mug that has been used.