Hey everyone so I’ve been with my gf for a bit over 8 months now. I’m going to make it quick and get to the point. We are decent in most circumstances, but she literally gets mad at me and shuts down over EVERYTHING… I’ve explained multiple times that if she ever has anything to say she can always tell me blah blah blah. Anything from needing space, to needing someone to just sit and listen, venting about me to me literally everything. She is very avoidant and no matter what shuts down immediately then acts like nothing is wrong. I swear I feel like I’m almost going crazy over it. Sit down conversations over and over about the same stuff. Now I am not getting a response because she asked me my top 10 favorite songs and I told her then she said “not even going to ask me mine alrighty” This happens nearly every night without fail over little things… My question I guess is it possible to help people that shut down or immediately get mad at little things like this. What would you do? Sorry if I sound fed up but it’s been happening constantly and we used to have so many conversations about it but she just tells me she is depressed and can’t control it. Plz help:(