been talking for 2 weeks. texted me a lot through out the days. seemed very interested in getting to know me, friendly and very good looking. (this had me a bit on guard though).
we were supposed to meet up around 7 pm to go pooling together as a first date/first time meeting.
around 5:30 i texted him i got home from work and started getting ready. no responses.
around 6:30 i texted him im ready see you at 7?
no response.
6:45 i called him. no response.
i just figured the date was off so stayed home. no responses for hours. i then blocked him. a few days later i unblocked him cause he lives near me and i didn’t want it to be awkward if i ever saw him in public so just said there were no hard feelings and take care.
he then responded saying đź‘Ť i fell asleep.
he began saying i was looking for his attention by texting him again and he said this ment that i wanted to give him another chance because i texted him and he said i had toxic behaviour for blocking him. i did apologise for my part.
i said if he apologised at least i would be able to give it another chance since well things happen people can be tired but he didn’t and he became defensive.
i just blocked him again cause i didn’t feel like arguing at all. he then texted me the next morning through SMS saying why i had to be so childish. i told him i wasn’t interested anymore and also felt weird about him saying i was just looking for his attention. he said he didn’t say it like that, but that was exactly what he said.
my friend told me i shouldn’t have veen so angry and just give him another chance. i just feel like this is strange behaviour for a men that calls himself “husband material”. he praised himself for being emotionally available, loyal, a good communicator etc etc.
but maybe i am to blame too for getting angry and blocking him. i know im not perfect either i struggle a bit with getting angry when i feel any kind of disrespect because i tolerated it too long in my life
should i just move forward or give this another chance? i just felt like an sincere apology would have been in place. at least that what i would have done.