My husband (35M) and I (26F) have been together for 5 years now, and somehow we still can’t keep our hands off each other. Honestly, our life feels better now than it ever has. We have 2 kids already and dream of having 3 more someday.
When we first met, neither of us were established in our careers and money was tight. About 2 years ago he started his business, and I started mine as well. Since then our lives have changed so much. We’re finally in a place where we have freedom with our time, make our own schedules, and are making more money than we ever have while honestly working less than we used to. Some days it almost feels like we’re both stay-at-home parents who just happen to run businesses too. The craziest part is that after all these years, the attraction has only gotten stronger. We both work from home and share an office, and I genuinely love it. I love watching him work, seeing how driven and focused he is, and I still flirt and seduce him throughout the day like we just met haha. Our sex life has only gotten better. For 5 years now we still have sex at least twice a day, I love it. He is so hot I literally get turned on from just looking at him or hearing him talk. What I love most though is the life we’ve built together and the way we support each other. I love encouraging him and reminding him how much he does for our family. He is truly our everything, and I feel so blessed to have him. I want to make his life easier the same way he makes mine easier. I love cooking for him, keeping the house cozy, and creating a peaceful environment for our family because he deserves that kind of love and care. But the thing about him is he never expects me to carry everything on my own. He loves helping. We do everything together. If he notices I’m stressed with the kids, he’ll run me a bath, light a candle, take the kids to the park, and come back with Starbucks for me. He’s so observant and thoughtful in ways that make me fall in love with him even more. So this is what I mean, when he pours into me when I pour into him and vise versa. Give your husband an environment he desires to be in. He doesn’t want to have a stressful day at work and then be on edge when he’s home. I’ve heard of guys that literally stay at work longer so they don’t have to go home sooner to see their wife and kids. At the end of the day, I think we just genuinely love making each other’s lives easier. We’re best friends, partners, parents, and still somehow obsessed with each other after all this time!