Inoften feel very intimidated by socials groups, like going to bars and getting to know people. I runaway or come up with an excuse to excuse myself from a conversation. It's the feeling of that I'm going to get rejected or won't fit it as usual that intimidates me.
Nonetheless I do try to put myself out there. I'd like to know what are some things to be mindful of when you're getting to know someone/people. Traits and quirks that may prove bothersome to people.
Like I know years back, with an ex of mind, we were eating and talking at the some restaurant discussing some movie that had just come out. She was trying to get a word in, and I guess I must've kept interrupting her in my enthusiasm, until finally she yelled back at me LET ME FINISH. Oh felt so embarrassed and filled with shame and I realized that I probably been doing that my whole life. Or rambling about a topic no one else is interested in.
So I guess I'd like a quick rundown of what us people with ADHD need to be mindful of.