hey all. i’m a 21 year old girl and have never really had super close friends, more so aquaintences. i’ve always been quite girly but never had any friends that shared the same girly interests (shopping, fragrance, clothes, dressing up, makeup, shoes etc.)
one of my favourite shows is the girls next door and i so badly want to constantly be around fellow girls that are always down to dress up, help do eachothers hair and have fun. i yearn for that sisterhood that comes with close female friendships. i haven’t felt it in a while and i miss it, but im scared. i want to find a version of this in my area but don’t know how to go about it.
im from a small town and not in college. i am more creative so i never went, but college is the only thing i could imagine to get close to what i want. my acquaintances/friends from high school all just recently graduated college so i cant even go visit them either.
i almost wish i could’ve gone to college just for the social benefits but i am from a small canadian town and the nearest community college is an hour ish away, and i wouldnt want to move out to study something im not 100% about. even the idea of a sorority seems interesting for the womanly/community part of it, allthough i hear some sorority girls can be not very friendly. i want to have the fun college experience with fun girl friends but i don’t know how to get it.
i am also quite isolated and tend to isolate myself in times of stress. i find it hard to get get myself out even tho i want to and want to create these memories for myself, especially because im young. i want to be having more fun than i am. does anyone have any tips on how to achieve this? thank you ❤️