I, 22M, am going out, not on a date, with a female friend of mine. We both know each other already through a large friend group chat we’re in, and we’ve met in person plenty of times as well. She’s someone I do want to get closer to, because I genuinely do like her as a person.

Whenever we meet, we usually dab each other up, and that is fine with me, but at this point in time, I’m also trying to improve social physical contact with all of my friends, since my love language is geared more towards physical touch, and I am a touch starved person.

I’m just too scared to ask her, and I don’t know how. She is a bit on the more reserved side (I think?), but can be pretty generously outgoing at times, so I’m not entirely sure if she’d be responsive to it, but I am also fine if she says no for any reason. I just kinda want to try.

For those who are gonna come at me in the comments, she is lesbian. And she knows that I know that. We’re comfortable in that sense.


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