I’m a 22F turning 23 in a little over a month, and I’ve never been in a relationship before. There have been a few guys in my life who pursued me, but I never felt anything for them beyond friendship. I believe in giving people clarity early rather than leading them on so nothing happened with them. And because I’ve been single for so long and have never even had my first kiss, it now feels right to save it for the “right person.” Am I overthinking it? It’s my first kiss, and I want it to feel special, you know?
Right now, I’m nowhere near finding the right person or at least that’s how it feels because I’m not even talking to anyone. Dating apps don’t really feel like me either. I’d rather meet someone naturally and build a genuine connection.
Is it weird to have been single for 23 years and never had a first kiss? I guess my question for guys is: when I eventually do have my first kiss, I’d want to tell the person beforehand. I’m just wondering if guys would think it’s weird that a 23-year-old girl has never kissed anyone or dated before. or you guys don't care about that?