Hi there!! There's a lot of posts like the one im making around reddit but I never seem to find good advice or things that actually work in the comments of those posts, so I wanted to see if I could maybe turn my luck by writing my own
I gave my boyfriend head for the first time [also my (and his) first ever time doing anything like this] and discovered that I do in fact have a gag reflex (which I thought i didn't because I could down ice lollies and his fingers for a much greater length)
I'd like to be able to go deeper because I know it feels good for him and it makes me happy knowing that, however I physically cannot go deeper when he pushes my head down because I start to gag. I also want to, understandably, avoid throwing up, so I was coming back up and apologising for not being able to do it
Luckily my boyfriend is very sweet and patient and he didn't mind that, telling me it was amazing regardless. I really do want to be able to please him more though, and we even looked up advice together, trying out things like squeezing the thumb on your left hand. They don't work, and it's bumming me out a lot 🙁
I read a LOT about practising on toys??? I dont own any but if it seems to work for people id be interested in trying
Overall, just wondering if people have any tips on how to at least improve my gag reflex in this scenario
I'm open to any weird and wacky tricks people use, anything at all
(Not sure if tricks work differently for the different sexes, but for context I am female)
TLDR: I have a bad gag reflex and would like to please my boyfriend more, so im looking for tips to help get over or improve the reflex so I can go deeper and for longer periods of time