At the beginning of last month I was seeing this guy (him 24, me woman 25) and everything was going REALLY well. He said a lot of things, seemed super interested in me and said he was actually willing to be in a relationship, that he was the type of guy who liked dating seriously (and we have mutual friends and they all reinforced that). But after a while he started acting kinda distant, taking way longer than usual to reply, and when I asked if he wanted to stop talking he said no, that he hadn’t changed his mind.
But everything got really weird and after feeling like I was even “humiliating” myself a little, I decided to end things. Then he said he had just gotten really worried because he felt like he wouldn’t be able to stay 100% as intense as he was in the beginning (he was trying to take me to expensive restaurants all the time, buying me stuff, giving me flowers) and I replied saying none of that actually mattered to me. He answered by asking me out, we picked a day and time. Then the day came, he disappeared. I sent several messages saying he was being really disrespectful to me, and he never replied again until now (it’s been 1 week). He still follows me on Instagram, watches all my stories, and never deleted the playlist we had together on Spotify.
A few days ago I accidentally sent him a reel that wasn’t even meant for him and deleted it right away, and he DM’d me like “did u send something and delete it?” I answered saying I sent it by mistake and he never replied again either.
We still haven’t talked since then. Any chance he comes back? Should I try to have one last convo with him? Normally I do tend to give a chance to understand the other person’s point of view before I completely let go, that’s why I thought about texting him to talk, and if he does not reciprocate or even respond, I’ll block him and that’s it, I don’t want to even think about a chance of him coming back.