Everyday my feed is filled with stories of cheating, infidelity, people jumping from relationships to another like its no big deal and it kinda scares me.

Im 23m and im in med school, a majority of my time is being taken up by hospital duties and taking care of my sick parents which leaves a very small window for navigating dating. The few interactions ive had ive learned how shallow and materialistic people can be.

This is being fueled by these reddit posts and im left to wonder am i too late now? Are all the females already in relationships or recovering from the last one ?

Im a simple person and while i can easily solve complex calculus some of the things i see these days like situationships, ONS, benching, hookups, no feelings just sex are so hard to comprehend.

My question is to people(men preferably) who are in their 30s and who have passed this phase, what part of my thinking is wrong and how do i improve my chances of meeting someone?


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