So me and this girl have been talking for a month, both of us have been single for a significant amount of time. Me personally I date intentionally, and let them know what i’m looking for ahead of time. She did the same thing, but only difference is I feel I set too many expectations and move too fast. I do feel everything I do ask for is fairly minimal and reciprocal. So she started to pick up on that, and asked if we could just go with the flow. Assuming she was beginning to feel overwhelmed. She likes me and I know that, she just wants to slow it down im assuming and just see where it goes. How do I work on that, the slowing down aspect, it feels impossible because its not really who I am but I really do like this girl and want to see where things can go. Obviously missing some context but just wanted to give a general idea.