okay i need advice and don’t know who else to turn to so semi long story short: last may i matched with a man on hinge, we talked A LOT but we didn’t meet until september and it turned out he’s stupidly hot, 6’6, and fucked me SO GOOD THAT NIGHT that i realized all of the sex i’d had prior sucked. like it was damn near life changing. we hooked up twice that month, but then he ghosted me, i had a bit of a private meltdown even though i don’t want a relationship, i just didn’t want to lose that sex. i have ran into him twice since then at a bar and that’s been it and each time it was short cordial. but then last weekend he texted me and i ended up going over there and we hooked up. he fell asleep so i just took it upon myself to leave and i haven’t heard a fucking peep from him since. i’m busy tonight but free tomorrow night and am trying to decide if i reach out tomorrow and directly say i want to hook up or if i shut the fuck up and let him reach out.
thanks in advance for your thoughts!! <3