In March I met this guy via snap. Iāve got 15k followers on snap and was growing my following during this time. We basically hit it off night one, found out weāre only 4 hours away from each other, everything seemed pretty good. Found out about the ex gfās, trauma heās had happened to him in relationships, family struggles, addiction struggles, but the kicker, he hasnāt had a job in 5 months. Iām not the type to call anyone a bum as long as youāre at least trying. Itās been two months and I see him on the game 24/7. Not having conversations with his younger sibling abt transportation (stop relying on big brother), Iām seeing no efforts in terms of our relationship or him growing. Iāve discussed with him and getting his GED, trying for college, basically try ANYTHING, and I get nothing. Iām noticing on FaceTime if I mute him he gets defensive. Heāll say heās insecure bc he doesnāt āfeel good enoughā for me or he thinks Iām talking to one of the other 15k people (Iām not). If weāre playing COD together he gets SO MAD and takes it out on me. 4 days ago he called me while I had kids in my presence (Iām work in childcare) I answered and he starts talking 90 to nothing, I expressed that I didnāt understand while also talking to one of my 2 year olds to which, with full rage, he yelled, āSTFU YOURE NOT FUCKING LISTENINGā. I was disgusted with this behavior. I didnāt speak to him for a while with him apologizing constantly. I sent a long paragraph and basically said you either fix your anger now and work on yourself or Iām done. We get on FaceTime to discuss it more, obviously Iām heated I have a right to be, and he starts yelling at me again. Yall the room started spinning, I done puked everywhere, vision blurry, check my BPā¦ 156/98š To end I told him I will not be doing this for another 5-6 months, heās got a week to figure it out. Am I wrong?