I am in a relationship for 6 years and engaged for about 2 years. Never told this anyone, but because I started acumullating frustrations that were not solved, now I am hating him tremendously. I just can't stand him anymore.
I do not know what to do, our family bonded together and I feel like breaking up with him would dissapoint everyone.I secretely wish he does a big mistake so that I have a reason to break up with him.
You are wondering what he does so badly that I cannot stand him. Well, he does nothing at all. He has no vicious habits, he is not violent, he is an introverted person, he is nice but I just can't stand him anymore to come home from work and to do absolutely nothing while waiting for me to do everything.
Everytime in my 2 days off I need to think what to cook, make the shopping list and then spend all my weekend cooking for the week. Then, during the week, I need to cook for his lunch package for work and all the time I need to stay with stress to always have food in the fridge.Then it is the cleaning, which he does every 2 -3 months. He only plays games and washes clothes ( but the machine does all, 1x week).
I live in a traditionalist country where people would consider I am extremely lucky and see this behaviour normal. Including my mom. She always keeps saying me to take care of him, as if he would be a god. But I am tired and feel like a sclave. As if I was born to serve men and having inherently no other value.