its honestly my first time using reddit, so i am not too sure how to go about this, so i apologise in advanve if i am doing this wrong.
as already mentioned before, my boyfriend (16M) constantly chooses to spend his time doing other things with other people instead of with me (16F). i get it, we dont share every interest, but yet i still try to get into his interests to be able to spend more time with him/have more conversation topics to talk about with him. he doesnt seem to put in the same effort and when i ask him to play or watch something together (which are only really the only options we have since we are long distance) he always replies very hesitantly or just chooses to agree but then ends up changing his mind later. yet every single time one of hs friends ask to play/call with him he doesnt hesitate, ends our call without further explanation and leaves me for a couple of hours texting me maybe once or twice. every time i try talking to him about it he guilt trips me or makes me feel invalid and it just ends in a useless argument, where i am the one who ends up apologising. im honestly a little lost since in the beginning you could REALLY tell how much he loves me and that i am his priority, but now that same effort is nowhere to be found.
**TL;DR;** Whenever we spend time together, he ditches me for his friends and whenever i try to talk to him about it, he plays the victim card and it ends in an argument.