I’m a law student and I think I completely fucked myself emotionally over one girl.
We talk almost every day. She shares personal stuff, family problems, future plans, everything. I confessed multiple times. She never says yes or no. Just “shut up idiot,” “we have 5 years,” and other mixed signals that keep me hooked.
Her family is super strict. Her dad once caught our chats and she disappeared for a week. Came back later and explained everything. On calls/chats she acts close, comfortable, sometimes even emotionally attached. But in college? Some days she treats me like I don’t even exist.
I got so attached that I finally told her:
“Staying friends while having feelings for you feels like torture.”
And she replied saying I’m childish, need therapy, and have mood swings.
Now I genuinely can’t tell if:
she secretly likes me but is scared/confused,
or I’m just a convenient emotional support clown with romantic delusions.
Be honest: Am I dealing with a confused girl, or am I just another guy deep in the friendzone refusing to see reality?