My standards were different and I know where this addiction will take us. So we live at my grandmas where there is an add on apartment. Rent free and that has given him an advantage that is one of many. He was able to secure a job and yet he still blows al out the entire check roughly a hundred toward myself and the baby. Im done and if he is going to stay here he is going to start paying rent and I am debating child support. He got a car because of my help. So there is the lack of regard and fore the fog is cleared. I know who he is and I want him out and we can covalent in that situation. If he ever changes or not has nothing to do with me. Oh we also love in las vegas so its hopeless for him. I want to know what someone else would do in my shoes.