I'm kind of tired of getting ghosted after one message. It's so annoying how people think a single message outside of like asking if they want to see your dick or something is enough to make someone lose all interest. Keep in mind this is like 2 days after so I give them time to respond.
It's just so frustrating how no one wants to take any time to get to know you or put any amount of effort in. I know I'm not entitled to anything but my god is it frustrating. I have just gotten to the point that if it is over 24 hours I just unmatch them. I know it's petty but also somewhat nice because it makes me feel like I get to have a little self respect.
Also a common thing I see in response to this is "oh just think of better things to say" and it's like I've done that. But you still are lucky to get anything back that isn't a one word response or a boring comment. Also it's hard to make any kind of conversation when the only thing on someone's profile is that they like travelling or food. So it's like I need to ask you about yourself or I have no idea what to talk about.
I understand some people get spammed but I honestly don't care because it doesn't make it any less frustrating. I think everyone can relate to this so it's not just a me problem. I am more so just venting about my hatred for dating apps than about anyone in particular.