So Ive (19f) gone on 5 dates with a guy (23) and a 6th one is planned
The thing is, I would like some more emotional connection, communication about what kind of relatinship we both want and more physical closeness (someone tell me if its too early to want that)
Anyways, on the dates we both have a lot of fun, maybe some awkward moments here and there, but great conversation the whole time. But Id like to talk about things that are beyond surface level and current, if that makes sense. I just would like to know more about his relationship goals and what hes looking for or what he wants for the future… but maybe thats too early? And Im not sure how to ask these things
Second, uts almost just very friendly with a side of flirting and he always asks to kiss. But I dont want the physical closeness to be narrated or asked for. I just want to feel the vibes and go in. It could be b/ weve only been in public or in the front seat of my car. But the kissing thing is almost like an interruption at this point. Like "okay now we do the kissing part". Just dont know how I can chnage that. He was my first kiss also, so I really have no idea what Im doing, but I feel like steps are missing. We havent held hands or hugged yet… Im confused 🧍♀️
Also we dont text between dates and I think because we have only seen each other once a week, the momentum kind of pauses in the mean time and I start to lose confidence that hes interested. Although that instantly changes when we're together. So I dont know! Im just very confused and this is the first time Ive been interested in the person Im dating! Someone please help