From what I understand it’s manipulative to do a social activity with the express goal of finding a date, except for singles events. Which doesn’t work for me because the ones in my area are all 21+ and involve alcohol. So even if I was old enough I know it’s extremely creepy and wrong to flirt with intoxicated women. My current only social hobby is extremely older male dominated. My other hobbies are solo. I have friends so if I were to do other social activities it would be explicitly for getting a date. I want a relationship but I don’t want to break the rules and become a creep. Is there anything I can do? Should I just wait and hope I meet a woman my age at my extremely male dominated social hobby?