I have a condition which affects my energy levels and my ability to do adventurous things, and requires me to rest a lot.
I want people to know this upfront so that those not compatible with that can move along. I want to attract people comfortable with restful, laid back activities and who are not put off having a partner who is managing their own challenges. I do not want to wait until having met them to tell them this.
The wider picture is that I do not need a carer, and have financial stability even though I am taking a long break from work. I have a strong career background so will be able to find work as and when I decide to. However, I don’t want to tell people that I own my home or mention finances, because I don’t want to attract people based on that.
How do I approach this in a short profile on a dating app?
Last time I was on the apps I used the phrase “I have a long-term condition that mainly means I take life more slowly”. I had a full body picture of me walking, and mentioned that I like to swim.
Thoughts appreciated!