Hey guys – I know I messed up but I went through my husband’s phone due to me seeing a message while he was on it and I selfishly wanted to read more. Big mistake lol I went through his group chat with his friends and saw some pretty terrible things. He is the only married fella and one other is in a relationship (he didn’t appear in any of the messages), the other 2 are single. My husband and the other two guys have been reminiscing about prior women they’ve slept with, discussing where to find the “hoes” and more.
Again, I KNOW I AM WRONG FOR INVADING HIS PRIVACY AND I TAKE FULL ACCOUNTABILITY.
If anyone has any advice on what to do with this information or if I should bring it up to him, that would be great. Just not sure if I should address it? I feel incredibly hurt — especially since if this were th other way around, he’d be done with me.
I’m also freshly postpartum so seeing those things hurt even more.
Thank you