I’m currently 19M. Idk ever since I turned 18 I just care less and less and just wanna enjoy life. No drama no luxury stuff. Just me,myself and I. I didn’t go to college because of financial reason and went into work and work currently for Amazon and it not so bad but I do wanna find a better job and plan to. My current big goal is to move to North Carolina (Raleigh), I’m not close with my family members at all, we rarely speak and mainly speak when we need something from each other but they become so dependent on me to do everything, I’m just tired I guess. But I wanna move outta state and when I do move I’ll have 25k saved up hopefully that’ll be enough. I have a very strong work ethic so no need to worry if I can keep a job. I have an associate degree which I earn during high school. so maybe I’ll go for a bachelor. But my question is, is this the right move. Getting outta state, basically starting a new life. I feel like if I stay here specifically with my parents I’m just trap and they’ll become so dependent on me, I’m not saying I don’t want to help them but put it this way. I work 10 hours shifts, 4 time a week. But on my 3 days off they always need something. Everyday off it “can u do this, do that, and that” and my father has started asking me for pocket money and my step-brother is always bugging me about paying more in rent, I currently pay 750 dollar in rent. Keep in mind I do pay bills ever since I turned 18. Yes living here will be cheaper but my life ain’t moving and I’m constantly stressed because of them. Is this the right move?


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