Connected with a guy through my bff & her BF. He’s the brother of the BF. We went out twice and hit it off great, text through the week but mainly end of day after work (nbd were both busy and will go day + without chatting), he said he likes me all that jazz etc but isn’t too forward at all. We have potential plans to hang again this weekend. Anyways, I am keeping my options open as I’m recently single and this isn’t serious l so I don’t want to close doors.
Anyways, I was only using hinge because tinder has that reputation for being hookups only. However, I just downloaded tinder since I haven’t had luck with hinge at all. When on hinge, I never came across this guy (he’s not on there) but day one of tinder he pops up. Now im thinking is this a red flag that he’s only on tinder? Not sure if im letting the stereotype of tinder get to me so figured id ask. For reference, we are almost 30. I hate the idea of investing time into someone who only wants casual/ hookups but I don’t wanna ask about intentions after only two dates.