Hey everyone,
It’s unfortunate that I need to make this post, but I’m looking for ideas on how I can support an old friend whose wife suddenly passed away.
We were close friends for quite a while, but we drifted apart a couple of years ago. Recently, out of the blue, I received a message from him letting me know what had happened. Since then, we’ve been messaging back and forth. I’m trying not to be too pushy, but I want him to know I’m here for him.
Randomly, He sent me his address and said I’m welcome to come by anytime. As a guy myself, I know that’s probably his way of saying he’s really needing support right now.
I also know that when life gets busy, a lot of us drift away from friends and support networks, so I understand that he may be trying to reconnect and rebuild that sense of friendship and support around him.
I’m honestly a bit stuck on what to do or say. I don’t want to bring too much energy, because that’s naturally my personality, and I definitely don’t want to say the wrong thing.
Do I take groceries? Pizza and beers? Just sit there and listen?
Any ideas or advice would really help.
Cheers,