My husband and I have been married for two years and we are expecting our first baby. Im just over 7 months pregnant and we’ve had a lot going on lately. We sold our home, have moved in with my mom while our new home is being worked on, and he is working out of town for the majority of the month. I have been struggling with my changing body and with feeling alone in the pregnancy. I brought this up to him recently and he was sympathetic. He was encouraging, sent me flowers and planned a very nice date night dinner at an upscale restaurant. I was really excited and really looking forward to dressing up and feeling like ”me” again, as well as enjoying a night out together. Well tonight he told me that he wanted to cancel our nice night out plans and do something more casual. The move cost more than he was expecting and he said we need to watch our spending. I don’t want to be unreasonable, and I don’t want to be selfish, but I am really bummed out. We haven’t had an actual date night in a long time and I was really looking forward to doing something special and getting to enjoy something nice. He is the one who planned the date and found this nice restaurant and sent me all the details about it. I had been expressing how excited I was and how I was so happy that he planned this for us. I’m just feeling down..


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