My husband slipped up during a conversation and admitted that he had been sleeping with another woman the entire time we were dating. He said it stopped after our first born. I was so shocked I didn’t clarify if he meant after our first born was born or conceived. Like does he mean he was sleeping with her while I was pregnant? I don’t know and not sure I want to ask further. In the moment I told him it’s the past and let it go immediately. Now I’ve had time to ruminate and process and I feel really sad. It’s not about the cheating because that’s so long ago… it’s about the lying. I didn’t know he was that type. I’ve always trusted him fully and never saw him as that type of person. I’m having trouble processing that he’s not who I thought he was and I feel down. No specific question, I guess just looking for comfort and reassurance from other married women who have dealt with this.