It's easy for someone in a relationship to say these to someone who's lonely, hurting, and single, and it's so frustrating to hear. When my friends' long-term relationships are getting longer and more serious, I can't help but wonder when it's going to be my turn. I'm in therapy, worked on myself, worked on expanding all aspects of my life, put myself out there and still, all I attract is emotional unavailability. It feels like a genuine, stable, loving relationship is too much to ask for these days.