I WILL ANSWER ALL QUESTIONS IN ORDER TO HELP

I’d like to preface this by saying that me and this girl only talked for 2 days so obviously I can’t get super upset over this BUT here’s my story (I’ll try to make it short)

I met a girl on tinder. We clicked really well. Great smooth flowing conversation, lots of laughs, agreed on a lot, respectfully disagreed on a lot. We both found each other very attractive and WE EVEN PLANNED A DATE. So we had our first phone call which went really well except I explained and verbalized some things wrong (I’m not the best speaker and I have trouble choosing the right words) so she texted me after respectfully and said she didn’t think we agree on some fundamental things and she wished me the best in finding love!

I was really into her so I didn’t want to let her go without a little fight (she really appreciated that and found it attractive) Long story short, I explained to her that I chose some wrong words and I didn’t explain things well. So things are back on track now! Except after a FaceTime call and two more phone calls, she asked for my Instagram. I gave it to her reluctantly because there was a point in my life where I fell in with the wrong crowd, was pressured into having beliefs I didn’t truly believe in and I ended up reposting a lot of stuff she didn’t agree with and I ALSO didn’t necessarily agree with. But I separated myself from that friend group to better my life and DIDN’T DELETE THE STUPID REPOSTS. So she found them and essentially got upset and slightly hurt about the things I reposted. She said she was disappointed because we were clicking so well but that the things I posted weren’t cool and she could associate with them!! So she stopped talking to me (she was extremely respectful about everything which is another reason why I’m very drawn to her. She’s mature)

This leads to my question!!! HOW DO I GET HER BACK!? I feel like I may have ruined it for good but how do I get another chance? I deleted all my reposts and unfollowed anyone that related to that content because I don’t truly believe in any of it! Am I DOOMED? Please help! All advice is welcome!!


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