Hello hello all you sex-positive lovely people!!

So first off I wanna say I'm young so my questions might seem freaking STUPID. I also grew up in deep LDS Utah and I'm using this kind of as a throw-away account because I'm embarrassed!! ANYWHO:

So I am TERRIFIED at the thought of sex. Specifically because I'm a woman. I mean… what's the big idea about the hymen breaking and you can bleed??? And I WANNA give pleasure to my man when the time comes but I KNOW I'm just going to be clenching. I've been reading some past posts but I wanna see if anyone has fresh advice or just wants to tell me to take a deep breath. So if someone (especially a fellow LADYYYYY) can hold my hand and tell me to put on my big girl pants that would be AWESOME.

  1. MOOD. How the HECK do you start the freaky mood?? Do I just like… go up and be like "Sex. Now. 🤤" I laugh when I'm nervous so am I gonna laugh during sex?? Also… do I need to practice moaning cause idk how to 💀

  2. Sooooo what do you MEAN it can take a long time for a woman to orgasm?? Is like… is it not gonna feel good in me? Am I just gonna clench so hard?? The ONLY sex talk I've ever heard was from my dad once and he said to use a lotttttt of lube but shouldn't I be like… idk wet enough?

  3. KINKS. HOWWWWW DO I EVEN START THAT CONVERSATION?? "Hey babe soooo… you wanna try a spreader bar??" And there are SOOOO many kinks so how do I know when like… too far is too far yk? (Ofc not anything illegal but like I've seen some people get aroused by like blood)

  4. I have never masturbated and I don't think I'm going to yet (I'M SCAREDDDD) but like I tried touching myself once, didn't orgasm, and gave up. How will I know if I've reached orgasm?? I've gotten to the point where like.. I'll be wet and stuff and then it'll feel good but then it'll just stop. Like no big grand finale or anything. Soooo… is that an orgasm?? Cause I am NOT wowed if that's how us ladies orgasm 💀

  5. CAN SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME WHAT MY LABIA IS SUPPOSED TO LOOK LIKE I'VE SEEN SO MANY DIFFERENT PICTURES 😭

  6. Also… what is my vagina supposed to smell/taste/whatever like?? Cause I know it's not supposed to stink or whatever but like… it's an organ?? Is it supposed to like… not smell fishy?? This is my biggest question I want answered

SORRY FOR THE LONG POST BYE BYE GUYSSSS


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