As the title insinuates I caught my boyfriend on kink/fetish sites again. At this point I have become so numb to it that I didn’t even wake his ass up to confront him. Instead I left all the tabs open, set about 15 alarms back to back so he has no choice but to wake up, and then he’ll see and realize that I know. I assume I will be blamed. I was “being bitchy” and “not giving it up”, mind you it was fucking finals week and we have kids. Id rather die than waste valuable study time getting mediocre dick. Now, everyone is going to tell me to leave him. trust and believe me when i say i would if i could. however i am completely dependent on him at the moment. he will not let me work to make my own income at all. plus, i know our children are safe and happy with me in the home and i do not have the financial means to file for full custody. now, not all hope is lost. i am in school finishing my degree and once i get it, im gone. ive been saving my student refund checks for a deposit and the first few months of rent while i finally step into my big girl job. all of this to say, the first time you see something that crosses a boundary, get the fuck out of there.