Hi, so for context, i see a lot of people, especially from those tik tok reddit stories where people idk talk about their situation and people comment what their thoughts are. i’m kind of at my wits end so I downloaded reddit in hopes maybe some strangers on the internet could have some idea on how to help me.
So i’m going to call myself V (18F) , i have a crush on this girl let’s just call her M (18F) , we got introduced by a mutual friend who said we would go really well together and so we started talking and things started looking really good, we had good conversations, we were talking a lot and i felt like we were getting along really great. It’s only been a short amount of time i would say just about to be a month we’ve been talking so to have developed a decent crush on her feels a little silly on my end but i couldn’t really help it. We go to different schools so we don’t often get to see each other unless we’re able to take time out of our schedule but she has school, work, rugby training and a big family so she’s constantly busy. We have a lot of common interests and from my end i felt like we could talk a lot and not get bored. She’s very sweet and is endearing towards me, she likes to make sure i’ve eaten and stays close to me when she can tell i’m not in a comfortable situation. We were starting to get off really good.
As of late i’ve noticed the past couple days we’ve been distancing, she hardly messages me anymore, i’ll be left on delivered for hours i mean like 15-16 hours long unless i message her myself. I’m starting to feel a bit stupid because i feel like i’m bothering her too much and messaging too much. I’m just not too sure if she’s interested in me anymore? i just don’t like the feeling of being lead on or just missing some cues i feel like i should be making. I ended up messaging her and asking if i was bothering her or annoying her because it was starting to get to my head but I didn’t want to jump to bold conclusions. She said i wasn’t and that she has just been busy but I can’t help but feel like there is more to the story than she’s saying.
Do you guys think she isn’t interested in me anymore? I’m not able to tell and i’m starting to overthink badly so i just want to rule out if i’m going crazy or something genuinely is wrong. I really like her so i want to know what the best way to fix it would be or if i just let it go and move on
TLDR; I like a girl and she’s slowly starting to ghost me i’m not too sure if she’s interested anymore and if i should bother or let it go