hi guys, spoiler, I may come as Clingy or needy, TL;DR
so I was/am idk in this relationship with this guy, who doesn't actually share anything what is going on with him, or w his friends or at his home, in his life in general, but expects me to share everything. I honestly have no idea who he is with, where is he, what is he doing EVER! we have been doing long distance since 2 years now, I visited him once and it felt so comfortable and real. everything was going okay, we had been planning of getting engaged, this year, we both had told our parents. The exact day after he told his parents he has been behaving weird. I am not emotionally very strong tbh, and he knows this very well. Small arguments are a part of every couples' life , which was ours too.since the past week he has been asking for space "to get surety that he wants to be with me", I have been trying my best to not text or call, but I can give max 2 days and then I make a call, to which he says don't call, wait for me to reach out, idk how to do that, for the past 2 years its like my whole world has been revolving around him, and I get so disheartened that even after 2 days when I call, rather than being excited to talk to me all he has to say is " you should have respected when I said I myself will reach out, rather than calling ", Today too I called after 2 days cz he said he would call me, but he didn't, I was so anxious that I just wanted to know what was going on in his head and all he had to say was" I have work tommr, my grandparents have come over, I can't talk, and you lack understanding" completely yelling at my face, this has never ever happened, I just think he's doing a slow breakup with me, and its so hard for me to pull back, cz of everything I imagined together, and the history of us together, honestly I am done with the lack of respect to my emotions but I just cannot digest the way he is treating me, pls suggest how do I do this, staying away and a breakup.