I (33F) recently started seeing someone (33M). He separated from his wife of two years about 9 months ago, and we’ve been seeing each other for around five weeks. Here in Australia, you have to be separated for a period of time before you can legally divorce. He has moved out of their house and they are definitely no longer together.
However, he still helps her out with errands, things like taking her car in for servicing, delivering things off for her, and helping organise her move to another city. I don't have many friends who are divorced so am wondering if this is normal or a red flag?