i hate talking to people but i do it everyday for my job. let alone talking to females. there's so many fine women i see every day of my life and i tried everything(almost). the girls im around like a dude who can be confident and upfront. i just cant. i tired playing mysterious background guy but it ain't cutting it. i need to be more confident and stop overthinking and just do. the thing is im so scared of rejection and being embarrassed that even when i do actually try to spit game on a female i compellty fuck it up. it's like they can tell i have no confidence. i know im decently attractive and have good qualities but its almost like all women care abt confidence alone and im willing to adapt to that. i just dont know how. please help.