ok so, im looking for help to help me understand
i basically don't feel any physical reaction during the act(im a girl) i tried lots of things, my first experience was with another biological girl and i felt excited and stuff but during the thing it went away and i didn't feel anything whilr doing it
then i tried doing it alone, like yeah maybe i was simply not ready to do it with someone, so i tried multiple times in multiple situations, completely alone, watching stuff first, on call with my bf at the time (while he was doing it and it turned me on) and i tried to touch in different ways and different parts too, but every time i simply don't feel any kind of pleasure, it doesn't feel different than touching any other body part
and more recently, i hooked up with a man, i kinda expected to feel something this time since he has experience and as i was drunk at the time i was 100% comfortable, but no, this time i didn't feel anything either :/ he did multiple stuff, he wasn't the kinda guy to only care for his own pleasure, but nothing worked.
i think i need to specify i take medication, im prescribed sertraline, but what ive been told (by my mom) is that it can make the coming longer to achieve but doesn't affect the sensation, so i guess thats not the reason?
i really don't know why i don't feel anything, bc i feel the WANT but not feeling anything just demotivates me, so its pretty frustrating
if anyone knows what to do or where its from please let me know