Me (F31) and my partner (M32) have been together since we were teens and I love him. I cannot picture my future without him.
We recently revisited the topic of having children and discovered that he no longer wants them. I am uncertain if I do. He thinks that I will decide l want them further down the line. And has near enough said that he thinks we need to split up because of it.
I cannot stand the idea of losing him and right now I honestly feel like if I need to pick one or the other, I pick him. I told him this and he says I need to think about it some more.
He has also mentioned that he wants to make a move to a big city, which would be a big change. I don’t think I want that but again if it was a matter of moving with him or breaking up, I would pick him and move.
He says I have gone in to panic mode and don’t want to lose him so I’m not really considering what I want.
I don’t know where to go from here, he firmly believes I will regret the choice to not have children and stay with him, but all I want for sure is him. Got any advice on how to move forward? I don’t know how to persuade him that I am happy just the two of us.