I’m a 31 year old male, and my mental health over the last nearly year has been pretty poor. Some days I feel fine and happy, but 60-70% of days I feel crippling… emptiness. Like nothing inside. I don’t feel happy, I don’t feel sad, I don’t feel anything really. The only thing that breaks through is anger. I out of nowhere get really really fucking angry like I want to bash my head into a wall. The other day I was driving home and I felt myself getting really sweaty and I could just feel myself getting incredibly worked up and I felt like I was disassociating. I just parked my car and screamed as loud as I could several times and it helped me. The anger isn’t tied to anything either, it’s totally random and unwarranted.
Mostly it’s just empty. I don’t care about anything or anyone. I can’t enjoy the things I used to enjoy a couple years ago and that’s what makes me the saddest. This year I achieved a lot both personally and professionally. Finished graduate school, got a job at one of the most prestigious firms in my industry, found a new girl who loves me deeply, and have 3 months of time off before my new role where my parents gave me money to go solo travel and see the world. I am so blessed and i don’t feel a single shred of excitement or happiness about it. I fucking hate when this girl tries to be nice or sweet to me. I hate when my parents call me to check in. I just feel so bitter and nonchalant. The only thing that brings me joy is alcohol and drugs. I’m trying not to fall into that hole but it’s so hard finding something that makes me feel something like drugs and alcohol do.
I don’t know what’s wrong with me. My ex told me I’m being dramatic and I think too much. I just know something is wrong because I wasn’t like this a couple years ago. I felt well adjusted and actually loved living life. Now I don’t care if something bad happens to me. I just feel so bleh.
Apologies if the post is inappropriate or rambling I just wanted to get this off my chest, and I thought it would be healthier than the beers in my fridge.