Hi,
So I recently met this girl, we both play basketball, it was a great connection and the texting was pleasant. We went on a really nice date and then out once more with friends. I was trying to take her on another 1:1 date but she kept rescheduling due to a busy bartending schedule.
Well I ended up losing my cool a little bit for my time not being respected and I thought I would never hear from her again. She did end up reaching out about a week later that she is dealing with a grievance and just not the best version of herself.
I know I need to move on currently and I am still going out and meeting other people but I am still a little hung up on this one and her maybe is killing me. I am 100% going to give her space for the next few weeks, but do you think she reaches out in the mean time? Is it respectful to reach out after a month to see how she’s feeling?
April 30
26F
& also :/ they asked me to cover a shift tomorrow night & I can’t really pass on it atm 😂
I’m sorry Ug
I know my schedule on Sunday so maybe we can plan a time next week if you’re still down … sorry this has been so back n forth
28M
Sure let me
But honestly I’m a little upset
I get it, but please try to help me out because I make a plan / reservations and buy tickets and then I have to cancel them
And I appreciate you offering a different date / time
I’m sorry I got heated in the moment 😔 I know you have a lot going on and so I appreciate you trying to make some time in your schedule. Everything is all good, just let me know about next week if you still wanna
May 9
26F
Hey
Sorry I haven’t been answering
My friend just passed away so I just am going thru some things right now not my best version to go on dates
Maybe we’ll link up in the future but just need some space for now 🫶🏼
28M
Aw I’m really sorry to hear that. You don’t need to apologize , it means a lot to hear from you. Take care of yourself 🙏🏻 thinking about you