So me and my girlfreind have been in relationship for 3 years have been ldr throughout havent had sex yet waiting for marriage(ik ik pretty weird). Now here is the thing we know sexual compatibility is a big thing very big and both of us are sexually aware of our needs and we sext alot no toys though sadly. Now the problem is both of us are like very big subs and when i try to dom her she says If i do something intresting I keep on repeating it which makes it boring for her making her turned off completely and quite upset since her libido is quitr high. Now I keep trying new things but she doesnt likes them like she like those elements but not the execution of mine as per her say and yes she was a wattpad write so she is quite creative while I am not much expressive in terms of text. It will be quite helpful then if someone can share tips for a sub to become a dom for certain time or how to use words/elements creatively. She is quite kinky like hardcore bdsm,DDLG as such stuff