Hi all – need some advice. Have been in a relationship with the GF for 8 months now, and we’ve been having regular sex which has been amazing. She is the best partner I’ve ever had, and she agrees likewise. She visibly enjoys it when we’re having sex, and I have no issues lasting long enough or anything like that. The unusual thing is that she can’t cum from penetration no matter how amazing she feels or how close she comes – there have been times when I know that she’s close, and literally losing her mind. But she is just unable to get over the line.
The only way she gets off is after I’m done – she stimulates her clit, and I use my fingers. Her orgasms are extremely intense, and sometimes scary to watch, though satisfying. And I’m happy to oblige.
What I do wish is that she’d be able to climax from penetration – while I’m inside her. We have spoken about it. She describes penetration as being extremely pleasurable, especially with particular positioning that I’m well aware of. She says she gets to the very edge, like she’s about to finish – but feels unable to get over the edge and finish. And she can’t seem to figure out how to. I have not put any pressure on her, and continue to use finger stimulation after to get her off every time.
Wondering if anyone else has faced this issue, and if they’ve been able to get over it. Would love to read about your experiences, and solutions if any. Thanks