For some examples from just this weekend….
Saturday he works and I went out to see some friends for breakfast and to go to the movies as I've been under a lot of stress because my mom recently passed.
I got home close to when he does and got into the shower. He got home and had to wait 5 minutes to get into the shower (I know the exact time because I checked the cameras for when his car arrived and when the door went off that he came inside).
He was livid he had to wait. Ruined the rest of the evening over it. Saying I don't care about him because I made him wait etc. That I wasn't excited enough to see him after he worked 60 hours.
Accuses me of cheating. Blabs on about how he always gets cheated on bla bla.
I have photos and proof of everywhere I went saturday as this is not an uncommon theme.
Sunday he complains about some giant cookies I had bought him at walmart. He was angry that the cookie set came with a walnut cookie- "don't ever buy that no one wants it!"
When I had only bought it at all because I thought he would like it when I was randomly there to get something for work one day.
I ordered, paid for and picked up pizza for dinner. He opens it and immediately is angry it isn't thin crust. Which btw he didn't ask for and I do not like. He also was mad it had sausage on it because he only likes pepperoni. I hate pepperoni and only like sausage. I forgot to get it half and half so he was extremely upset over that.
I feel like I am to blame for this kind of behavior as I have catered to his every whim for the last four years, and now have been under such emotional stress I am not doing that anymore. I feel as though I am just now truly seeing I walk on eggshells but think I also created this? Anyone in a similar situation or have any advice to offer?
TDLR; my boyfriend is bratty if things do not go exactly his way and I think I taught him to be that way.