Hey everyone,
I wanted to ask about something that’s been bothering me. I sometimes match or get DMs with girls on Instagram. At the start, things go really well they chat a lot, get flirty, even do n\*sty/sex\*al talk. It feels like we’re connecting and I start caring about them. Then after some days they suddenly start replying late, dry texts, or just avoid me completely. No explanation, just cold.
This has happened multiple times now and it messes with my head. I keep wondering what I’m doing wrong or why they behave like this.
Questions:
**Is this super common on Instagram?**
**Why does this happen? (Attention/validation?**
**Talking to multiple guys? Boredom? Scams?)**
**How do you guys deal with it without getting too affected emotionally?**
I’m genuinely trying to understand and improve. Not trying to generalize all women.
I know not everyone is like this. Just sharing my experience and looking for advice from people who’ve seen the same thing.
*Thanks in advance! Appreciate any honest replies.*