I (22 f) am making a post since this has happened to me on 3 occasion and I don’t know what to say. 1 had been messaging for a couple days then mentioned his failed attempt of try to hookup with a girl he met in the club that night, I told him that I didn’t want to know and eventually removed him. 2 had told me that he got a match with a girl on tinder that was his waitress at the bar I told him I didn’t want to know that agin. 3 I have been talking to this guy for quite a while and we have a date planned and he has mentioned going out for drinks and having “women all over him” then said he told them that he wasn’t interested, I don’t think it was necessary to bring up in the first place. I replied but deleted my message. What do I say? why does this keep happening.
Relevant context: I am looking for a relationship and have made that clear.