So a little backstory, my husband and I haven’t done the deed for a few months because there was a string of events where he treated me really badly and hurt me a lot. That, combined with being postpartum has not made me feel loved or emotionally safe enough to share my body with him. We’re currently working through things, but a few weeks ago I was in the shower and caught him sneaking a photo of me through the window. Also tonight, I was changing our baby’s diaper and was slightly bent over, and caught him taking a photo of me under my dress. Both times I snapped at him and made him delete it. Both times he shrugged it off and said he was just playing around. They were both taken secretly so I wouldn’t notice, but I caught him both times. I feel extremely creeped out and gross by all this. I was trying my best to work through things with him but this just makes me not want to get into bed with him any sooner. How would you feel if your husband did this to you? He doesn’t realize how creepy, gross, and big of a deal this is to me. How do I even handle this? It’s the next day and he’s acting as if nothing happened.