Hey everyone,My wife and I have a good relationship but we’re both pretty shy when it comes to talking about sexual or sensual things directly. I’ve been thinking for a while that I’d love to explore artistic nudity / fine art nudes together — not straight-up porn, but beautiful, tasteful photography and art that celebrates the body.I was thinking of starting lightly by sending her some elegant Instagram posts or accounts in DMs (photographers with great lighting, classical-inspired work, boudoir-style, etc.) instead of having a heavy sit-down conversation right away.Has anyone done something similar?
- How did your partner react when you first brought it up or started sharing?
- Did it help open up more intimacy or conversations?
- Any tips on good accounts/photographers to start with that feel classy and not too explicit?
- Any pitfalls I should avoid?
We’re both a bit reserved, so I want to keep this low-pressure and respectful of her comfort. Would love to hear real experiences from other couples (especially if one or both partners started off shy). Thanks!