idk if this is the right place to ask but oh well
i (f20) haven't had an orgasm before?? i mean i've tried things for the past year or two but it doesn't seem to be working, and am wondering if there are things i can do that'll make it at least easier for me to get one.
i've tried fingering myself, but using even two of my fingers brings discomfort at best and pain at worst (and my hands r somewhat on the smaller side too so idk)
i've also tried clit stimulation? with my fingers and a bullet vibe i bought, but i just feel kinda buzzy/shaky. i THINK the closest i've gotten is like when i feel like a cramp (? or like my gut feels really tight) in my lower stomach and then i'll stop bc it makes me uncomfortable.
idk what would help like at all. and i'm starting to wonder if i'm not able to cum at all or if i'm just not doing things right ðŸ˜
(repost bc i apparently dont know vocab ðŸ˜)