My bf (26) and I (24) have been dating for almost 4 months and really everything is perfect. We're serious and we'll be getting engaged soon and I'm so excited. We both had very religious upbringings, so I don't have like a lot of sexual experience in truth really none, and compared to other guys his age, he hasn't either (but he isn't a virgin). We haven't had sex yet with each other, and we want to wait till after marriage for that, but we like kiss, touch, fondle you get the idea.
We talk about things we want to like try in the bedroom and i realize that even though like I'm into the idea of being adventurous like at the same time I'm nervous about just vanilla sex so how will I be able to do the more kinkier things? And also I'm just like scared he won't see me as this perfect thing, like I don't want to ruin his image of me. But also like there's a block of how to get over it and just be able to enjoy it and each other when the time comes?
What's the best way to talk to him about this?