Now this is going to sound very very backwards okay? Think with centuries ago mindset to understand what's going on here.
My cousin (26f) she's the sweetest, most beautiful girl ever and she's a pharmacist so she's pretty good in this place we live in. Her parents want to literally "give her up" to her aunts son (her dad's sister). This man is 37M or older he probably have some sexual problems because of an illness he has which may has made him not infertil (which is very important because if she doesn't have a kid with him she will always be blamed.) and he's just stupid in my opinion.
But worse of all his mother is the worst person ever. She's such such a bad spirited woman! She has been making up problems to ruin eveyones life, trying to break up marriages in the family, making big problems and even cutting off the family because they didn't give her son the girl's older sister. I cannot explain how horrible she is and the girl would have to live with her forever.
The girl's dad decided to give her away to his sister because "his sister broke his heart and he wants to make sure she's good" after grandma died. She did get very sad and sick after her mother died obv and so he decided to give her his daughter for her son. Her mother agreed too because of the family's bad reputation which is the boys having multiple girlfriends and the older sister getting divorced after a week of marriage (I did tell you to think like a cave man) (here they always say this type of divorce happens because the woman is not ""virgin"") so that would make her "chances in marriage lower and lower".
The only one who knows about this is me and my mom (and her parents obviously) they want my mom to tell my dad so they tell the guy to come and propose to her my mom said she doesn't want to get involved (in her words) crime against the girl. I don't want to do that either. So both of us are now stuck between the girl's family and getting the word out and in my opinion ruining the girls life.
If you ask about what she thinks they won't care but I know she doesn't want to but now especially her mom being okay with it wants to happen it won't make a difference if she says yes or no. It's very sad and disgusting to hear but this is how backwards we are.
My mom suggested I propose to the girl temporarily so that guy can't propose to her but I feel like this is treating the problem with a bigger problem. So any other advice please? Thank you I know this sounds stupid but I'm out of ideas